Topic: Psycho bitches

[PyroMenace]

We all know theres a lot out there. Story: I turned a chick down today at work and now she has to act like a complete bitch whenever Im around. I mean on one hand it makes you feel better that you've turned her down because it reveals the true psycho bitch that she is, but now you just have to deal with it.

Wheres the justice in my life when it comes to females? 

[gpw11]

Chicks always seem to make things more dramatic then they actually are or need to be.  You turned her down for whatever reason and all of a sudden she's inadequete and you're a huge jackass.  It's fucked.  It's like that girl that called me right before a party a couple weeks ago ... she saw something going on that totally wasn't.  Chicks seem to do that a lot.

Since I decided to stop my 'evil' ways things with girls seem to be a whole lot more complicated, when if you think about it, they totally shouldn't be.  I think it's more to do with the types of girls you deal with in these situations.  I kind of didn't show up at a bar to meet a girl I used to see from time to time last night, and she totally didn't care.  Laid back, easy going, and doesn't see anything going on that's not.  She rightfully could have been a bitch about it, but realised it wouldn't acomplish anything.  The problem is that it's a lot harder to pull off what I used to when you're a bit older and not quite drinking as much.  Then you just feel guilty.

As for your problem;  totally avoid her.  No other option.  You can't talk to her about it without being condescending, and you can try try to be nice to her, but that's not going to help how she feels.  Maybe move and get a new job.  Oh, and change your name.

[Pugnate]

I've experienced women like this. WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH THEM!?!??!?!

[TheOtherBelmont]

I remember a girl like that in high school, shortly after I broke up with a girl, this other girl I had known since middle school asked me out and I turned her down (nicely) so I always got dirty looks from her and her friends.

[Ghandi]

I always chalked it up to PMS. Then again, I've met some girls that are like that constantly.

[Xessive]

Is there such a thing as Constant or Continuous PMS? It might justify/explain some cases.

Look at the bright side, at least she's not going out of her way to give you a bad day.. Some girls get vindictive.

[scottws]

Yeah, girls can be pretty crazy.

In high school, there was this one girl I met while I was waiting for a friend to get off work.  Later that night, she called me.  I don't even know how she got my number.  Then she proceeded to call me every day.

I was a nice guy and never told her I didn't like her and not to call, I just acted perturbed and uninterested on the phone so the conversations wouldn't last long.  She ended up asking me to some dance and I went.  Eventually it got to be so much that I had to tell her I just wasn't interested and I'm sorry.

Several years later, I ran into her at a bar.  She and I talked a bit, and she mentioned something like how I broke up with her or ditched her or something of that nature.  I was like, "Excuse me, but we were never going out.  You started calling me out of the blue and all we did was go to one dance together."

On an unrelated note, a couple years after that she later pulled me over.  She became a cop.  I didn't do anything wrong and didn't get a ticket, she just new it was me and wanted to talk to me.  Scary to see her with a gun.

[Pugnate]

hahaha great story....

In university first year, I was friends with this girl who was really into me. Long story short, she wouldn't take a hint. We hung out a lot as we were friends, but I guess she wanted a lot more. But all of our mutual friends would tell me what the situation was, and I was too naive. Well I wanted to tell her no, but didn't know how. Oh and I was 18 and she was 24.

Out of the blue she would hug me and touch me, but I wouldn't respond in kind. I wasn't into her, though she was a good friend. In hindsight I probably should have told her off, but I didn't know how.

She then started going into psycho mode. For the sake of the story I am going to just call her J. I think Xessive knows who she is.

So she would call me at weird times of the day. I was 18 and was dating a friend's sister who in high school and was 17. So J would call randomly just to chat, sometimes maybe three times a day.

Once she called and the girl I was dating picked up. J asked to talk to me, after which she asked me who it was. Long story short she just started shouting on he phone, and something about her being so young.

Later when we talked in person it was if nothing had happened. I thought maybe she had taken the hint, but no. We were all at a pub when she started using her foot to 'touch' me under the table. I got up suddenly, and it was like a scene from a movie.

In our culture we are taught to be really really polite to women. To this day I can't tell someone off for being a bitch, though then again I've had lots of shouting matches with my sister. That's a different story though.

Then one evening at about 2:00 A.M. I got a call from her. I was really really tired and had an exam, but again I was too polite to tell her so, because she didn't even ask and just started talking about her day. So I was really sleepy and I kept listening and listening as I was lying on my pillow and then I fell asleep.... yes.... asleep while she was talking...

Me: .....

J: Bla Bla Bla...

Me: .....

J: Bla Bla Bla...

Me: .....

J: So what do you think?

Me: .....

J: Hello?

Me: .....

J: HELLO?

Me: Oh Hi!

J: WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU! I CALLED YOU TO CHAT AND YOU FELL ASLEEP! HOW DARE YOU!

Me: Well it is two in the morning.

J: GRAAARWAWWWWR

Then she hung up.

Then twenty minutes later she called back to apologize and then hung up again.

Then a few days later the guys wanted to go the strip club and for some reason she came with us.

Later that night I got another phone call.

J: Hey so what did you think?

Me: It was OK.

J: Yea, those women don't know how to dance.

Me: I guess.

J: Yea that's not how you seduce a guy. You have to dance much slower and I have taken classes where I can get any guy aroused without touching them.

Me: Okaaaaay.

J: Did you know that men can have multiple orgasms as well?

Me: What?

J: Yea. Well my last boyfriend who I broke up with, his new girlfriend met me and thanked me.

Me: Why?

J: Because I taught him so much, and now he pleases her.

Me: OK...

J: Yea I used to give him multiple orgasms. It is a technique where I used my hips.

Me: Good for you!

J: GOOD FOR YOU? IS THAT ALL YOU CAN SAY?

Me: ....

J: Why don't you come over?

Me: NO! DAMNIT STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM ME!


I think she started crying or something. Anyway I stopped speaking to her and stuff for a week or so and then left for back home on vacation.

When I came back she jumped me as soon as she saw me at the university. I had to push her off, that barbarian of a woman.

J: When did you come back? Why didn't you call me?

Me: Look, because you make me uncomfortable. I don't want to be your boyfriend.

J: You are such an asshole!

After that she went after one of my best friends. She kept him so tightly wound around her finger, that he stopped hanging out with us or anyone else for that matter. It was nuts. I think he married her. 

I still wonder what happened to him. He was one of our best friends and then disappeared just like that. We used to catch sight of them but they'd see us and just go in another direction.

[scottws]

We were all at a pub when she started using her foot to 'touch' me under the table. I got up suddenly, and it was like a scene from a movie.

Haha that reminds me of my friend's younger sister.  She was really into me and would do that to me at dinner... with her mom and my friend present.  It was not good news.  Happened constantly.

I would always tell her that we can't be together, she's too young and my friend's sister but she wasn't fazed.  I told her that she can't "touch" me anymore at dinner and she would say ok but it never mattered.  She always did it anyway.

Then once I was spending the night over his house and I fell asleep downstairs and everyone else went upstairs.  She came down and woke me up then tried to get me to touch her.

She was relentless.  It was horrible.

[shock]

Lol.  These are good stories.

I had one come up recently with my ex.  I'll try and make it as short as possible, but it requires a bit of backdrop.

My ex and I went out for 2 years in high school.  When college(out of state)came around, I was tiring of her and it provided a good chance to get away.  I wanted change anyway, so I effectively broke up with her.  I wanted her to move on, but she just couldn't understand that(despite me DRILLING it into her).  So she basically guilt tripped me into talking to her frequently about whatever, despite the fact that it just made her more attached, not less.

While I am talking to her, I met another girl(actually made a thread about this here) that was visiting.  We hit it off and started talking a LOT on the phone during this time. 

Fast forward a month or so to Thanksgiving break: I am home for the first time since I left for school.  I tried to ignore her as much as possible because I knew nothing good would come from it.  Inevitably, we ended up meeting up.  And gradually things turned into more and we ended up having sex.  I knew it wasn't a good idea, but I was the one that kept stopping her and saying "We aren't going to be anything.  We can't be together." And she kept saying "I understand, I totally understand.  I really do."  Under that guise, I kept going.

Anyway, I finally realized that she didn't get it at all.  She called all the time about us being together, etc.  This is when I realized she was crazy or just a liar.  She ended up finding about this new girl from one of my friends.  She looks up her stuff on Facebook and finds that the girl planned a trip to visit me.  She proceeds to flip a shit.

A few weeks later, she went totally nuts.  She again went on Facebook and MESSAGED the NEW GIRL.  She told her all kinds of shit about me.  The funny thing was that the message basically said "I'm over Jason!  I give you my blessing to go out with him!"  As if she was in some type of authority to do that. Haha.

Then I told her what I should have said a long time ago: "I never want to talk to you again.  Ever.  Have a nice life".

[Quemaqua]

Most of my stuff in this vein was good friends who wouldn't leave me alone.  There were 2 in particular.  We were really good friends but there just wasn't any hope of anything else there.  Yet they kept after me for years.  The sad part is that I had a horrendous breakup with the first girl I really loved, so I was totally lonely and there was potential for rebound.  I never had sex with either of them, but... I still got plenty of "attention" out of the deal.  I felt really bad about it afterwards every time, but they just wouldn't quit and we were too close for me to know what to do.  I needed comfort and I was getting it.  In the end things ended fine with both of them and we remained friends for years, but I'm not really friends with either of them anymore.  Just sort of moved on in different ways I guess.  And this wasn't exactly at the same time like I'm making it sound.  It was one then the other.

[angrykeebler]

i know a psycho bitch

his name is hoob

haha zing

[Xessive]

i know a psycho bitch

his name is hoob

haha zing

HAHhaha BURN! hehe

Man Pug, I think I know who you're talking about! I had to jog my memory a bit, but damn! hehe Good times nonetheless