So, I met this chick last week or so, and went out for drinks with her on Thursday. It went really well and we got along great, and she called me friday to come over and "watch a movie". We made out for a bit, which was fine and all, but I didn't really want to be there because I kept on getting text messages from people out having fun. This girl wanted me to stay over there, but I kind of sort of said I had to get up really early to go to work, left, and then went and met up with some friends at 2 am.
Soooooooooo sat. afternoon rolls up and I'm pretty hung over. This chick keeps on sending me text messages like "I had a super fun time last night!" and "That 'movie was great
". Aha ha ha...what the fuck? She wants to do something sat. night, which is also kind of weird. I tell her I can't and she asks me about Sunday (tonight), so I agree to meet her.
All day I was kind of thinking about this, and came to the conclusion that I pretty much need to set things straight. I'm 99% positive I've already told her I'm not looking for a girlfriend, but in my expierience, girls always think they can change that about you. Either way, I'm farily positive she's looking for a boyfriend and I obviously can't provide that in any way. When we met earlier tonight I basically went in to judge where she was coming from and convinced myself that my earlier conclusion was correct: she want's a boyfriend. I have to tell her it's not going to be me, but it's hard because she's too damn nice. So, I figure the best way to go about this:
As I was driving her home, I laid down this piece of gold:
ME: "Look, about the other night...."
Her: "Yeah, it was fun!"
ME: "Yeah....I think you should go get tested."
Her: "...... uh....why?"
ME: "haha. Just kidding, what I meant to say was I-don't-know-what-you-want-but-I'm-totally-not-looking-for-a-girlfriend-no-offense. haha, jokes."
Her: "uh...ok?"
A.) It was a dick move, but maybe the best way to lay that down and
B.) I think she was cool with it, but at the same time seemed a little let down, which kind of makes me feel really really bad. She's really nice and I like her a lot, but that wasn't going to work out at all for either of us. Everyone else feels guilty when they do this right?