Boom! Q&A time.
Good times.
I don't have much to add other than I hate fake boobs. Sometimes fake boobs can look great under a shirt but they are just alien and gross naked. That's why I never understood why they are so popular with strippers and porn stars, the very last group of women that I think should get them.
I've never actually noticed visually. Well, not with someone I've been sleeping with. I have seen really bad jobs on strippers and porn stars though.
You were in the bedroom with her. Whatever went on in there, and she liked... well that was sex. It was about getting off. If she liked her ass being slapped, or herself called a 'slut', it was something that made her enjoy the sex more.
She seems like she is sensitive about the breast thing. I don't know. Try to be understanding?
Oh, I totally understand the difference. That was kind of a joke. And obviously she is sensitive about it (which honestly is kind of weird), but there's a way to handle that and it's "Sorry, it's a sensitive subject" or "I'd rather not talk about that". Honestly, if I had a tattoo of a bear fucking an eagle on my back, I'd expect some chick to ask me about it after we fucked. It's kind of the same thing - there's this obvious thing about you right in front of someone else's face. They're going to ask.
Girl: Is that a bear fucking an eagle?
Guy: Yup.
Girl: Wow.
Guy: Yup.
Girl: When'd you get that?
Guy: Honestly, I don't really want to talk about it.
Girl: Okay. Do you like Milkshakes?
Guy: DO I EVER!
It's not like I was prying into some deeply personal aspect of her. I suspected the breast was fake, I asked if it was. At any time she could have said it's a little too personal.
Cultural differences I guess. I feel bad for her that you are talking about her that way outside of when you were intimate, but I am sure she knew she was getting into it with a man slut (that's not supposed to be an insult. Just an observation.)
I wouldn't feel bad for her. Also, talking about her in what way? Like, in that post? It probably is a cultural difference for sure, but chances are she's said far, far worse things. Honestly, get a group of girls together and get them to start talking about guys that they've slept with and you will hear shit. CRAZY SHIT. Women can probably outpace men when it comes to kissing and telling. Also, about saying really bad shit about dudes they've been intimate with.
Are you going to go about this all your life? Do you not want to have real intimacy with someone? Are you incapable of it? (Not a criticism. Just an observation. I am not saying your lifestyle is bad or good.)
Serious question. Have you ever made love to someone as opposed to fucking them?
All my life? Probably not.
Do I want to have real intimacy? It could be nice, but it's not necessarily a life goal for me. And yes, there is a possibility that I may be incapable of it, I suppose.
Have I ever made love to someone as opposed to fucking them? It depends what you mean. Like a difference in action compared to a difference in emotion. But yes, I probably have. Maybe. I think I may have been confused though (seriously).
I find it funny that this apparently comes after sex in the relationship timeline.
I know, right!? That was my point. If I take my shirt off in front of you, yes you can ask about my pacemaker scar. Well, I don't actually have a pacemaker scar (yet), but you get the point. Also, no one has ever had any sort of problem like this. I'm seriously sticking to my guns that this girl was acting two standard deviations out of the ordinary.
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We've been watching GPW post about his entertaining sexcapades for a while. I am starting to feel sorry for these women. Is this what they are looking for? Some guy who masturbates inside them, and then mocks them while sharing sex stories with buds? Is this how it is?
Haha. I wouldn't feel sorry for anyone. No one is being wronged here and I'm not strictly using anyone for sex. I'm not pretending I'm more into anyone than I am and I'm not misleading anyone. If anything, I'm usually the one who's more cautious because I'm worried about how the other person may feel down the road and don't want there to be any misconceptions. If I'm into a chick I'll tell her, and if I'm unsure, I'll usually tell her. I'm not taking a girl out on five dates, charming her, sleeping with her, and then never calling her again (although this has happened to a point, but for unrelated reasons). At the very worst, I'll tell a girl that it just wasn't working out for me after. Which is legitimate - if you're not sexually compatible with someone you're not going to be as into them. I'm also not going into any of these situations thinking "I'm going to fuck this chick and get out". Well, that's a lie - I have done that before, but in situations where they've been thinking the exact same thing. If everything goes swell, and things go further, great, but I'm not faking it and I'm not forcing it.
I also don't know if you'd say I masturbate inside them. That's just gross. But yes, if there's a story I'll probably share it and I expect them to do the same. And, more than likely, they do.
So I wonder if that's not truly for GPW, or if he is simply afraid of going there?
I wouldn't say that I'm afraid, but I can find something wrong with pretty much anyone. It could be a subconscious thing.
I think that woman GPW posted about, who had a bad previous relationship, and wanted to take time to see where things go. I think she sounded pretty nice. Maybe for a change GPW can look for a different sort of girlfriend. Someone who wants to be in a committed relationship before physical intimacy.
That's not really how the story went. She actually had a string of bad previous relationships, and did indeed want to take time to see where things went. And I was totally fine with that. I was actually more fine with it than she was, as it ended up being me holding out on her a bit. The issue wasn't that she wanted to be in a committed relationship before physical intimacy, it was that all of a sudden she was on the fence about an ex who was giving her a hard time and basically wanted me to wait in the wings while she sorted it out. And I tried to be fine with that but ultimately wasn't - not because it meant I wasn't banging her, but because I was too invested in her. I was totally free to be banging other chicks during this time period, so that wasn't an issue. In retrospect the best thing to do would have been to walk rather than pretend that I was somewhat cool with it, and ultimately at the end of the day, how things turned out ended up being her call, not mine. I was completely open with her, "this is how I feel, this is why, blah blah". It wasn't simply a case of her wanting to take things slow and me throwing my arms up in the air and saying "fuck this". Honestly, I don't really think she was being honest in at least some respect, but it doesn't really matter.
I am just interested. Do you feel at all empty with this lifestyle, or does it absolutely not bother you at all GPW? (I am just wondering. I am not being a dick. I am genuinely curious)
No offence taken at all to any of your questions - I totally see where you're coming from. Do I feel empty? Not really. Most of the time. I'm never opposed to something deeper, and I've been involved with things that are deeper, but, like I said, I'm not going to force it and the majority of the time, things just don't click. That said, I'm still going to sex a chick up if she wants to get sexed up, and I'm going to do it without misleading anyone. I don't see anything wrong with that - I'm probably just a really picky mother fucker.
It wasn't intended as a high-five. Rather it was more like sarcasm, since this is a mess he got into with a future neighbor.
Oh, trust me, I'll PROBABLY smooth this over if I interact with this chick fairly often. Like, I'm obviously never going to sleep with her again, but it probably won't end up awkward and weird. Realistically, her thinking I'm kind of an asshole for asking about her fake breasts is better in that regard than the alternative of her feeling at all rejected. It's kind of a win-win for everyone.
I will field any further questions.
