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Tension.
« on: Saturday, August 21, 2010, 07:28:19 AM »
Something happened in my work related life that is making me feel incredibly depressed and tense. I haven't slept properly and I feel nausea and stomach pains. Yea it sucks.

I am not sure why I am posting this here, but yea... splitting headaches suck. :(

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #1 on: Saturday, August 21, 2010, 08:08:30 AM »
Life is too short man.  Don't let your work life rule your non-work life.

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #2 on: Saturday, August 21, 2010, 08:30:53 AM »
If it were a job, I wouldn't care. But when you are running a business, sometimes it takes over your life. :(

I wish I were in a normal line of work. Sometimes it is really tough to handle.

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #3 on: Saturday, August 21, 2010, 10:27:38 AM »
Sucks, man. =T  I feel you, though... less for work and more for other stuff, but I'm pretty much in the same place.

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #4 on: Saturday, August 21, 2010, 12:04:03 PM »
Sorry to hear this, Pug. :( Hang in there and stay strong. It ain't gonna be easy - life never is - but hang in there, anyways.

But really, though - you should've stopped working for The Pirate Bay A LONG time ago...  :P

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #5 on: Saturday, August 21, 2010, 04:56:24 PM »
You can pull through, Noman. I know you can.

When you feel like everything is against you, you have to find that something that keeps you steady. It's often as simple as going back to square one: what is it that got you in the business in the first place? Remember it, fight for it. Not an easy trick but a simple one; at least that's what works for me.

And remember, if you ever need to talk I'm not as far away as most of the guys here :) Heck, give me your number, I'll call!

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #6 on: Sunday, August 22, 2010, 07:59:01 AM »
The shit hit the fan this morning. Things are really fucked and I don't see a way out.

Guys, I am going to be away till I sort this mess out. I don't want any further negativity to seep through here from me.

Take care. I'll be back when I'll be back.

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #7 on: Sunday, August 22, 2010, 12:35:57 PM »
Shit.  Sounds really serious.  Best of luck, Pug.  I hope whatever it is gets resolved.  My thoughts are with you.

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #8 on: Sunday, August 22, 2010, 02:21:46 PM »
Take care, man.  Try not to let it get you too down, whatever it is.  Just do your best to deal with the situation as it comes.  Or you could come over to my place and we'll get completely trashed and play chess.  Hang in there, dude.  Don't be afraid to stop in if you need moral support, even if you aren't making it a regular stop for a while.

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #9 on: Monday, August 23, 2010, 12:44:27 AM »
Good luck, Pug. I will be thinking about you and I wish you the best. We will see you again soon.

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #10 on: Thursday, September 23, 2010, 12:17:31 AM »
Basically this is what happened:

I operate a business selling leather goods like jackets and rugs online through my website. It is all 100% legit of course.

* The business operates under my friend's name in Canada.

* Half of my life savings were in the paypal account under his name. I had recently just placed an order at the tannery in Pakistan, with most of my savings here, leaving me with little running captial.

* We change the paypal password every month for security purposes.

* While my friend was away for the weekend, I changed the password, and the account locked, asking for bank account number verification.

* This has happened before when changing the password, and simply entering the account number has sufficed. Unfortunately, this time there was a glitch.

* Every bank account number starts with a routing number (098 for example). This glitch had reset all bank account numbers saved on paypal as 000.

* I did not know this, and neither did the paypal employees that I kept phoning every time it rejected the number. I was instructed to enter the number in various combinations with the dashes, without the dashes etc.

* The account locked after too many tries. I had two bank account numbers on, and both were facing the same glitch. I called paypal three times, and they reset the tries every time, but to no avail.

* They asked me to upload bank account statements to prove the account was ours.

* My friend, the account holder, was away for the weekend, so I had to tackle this alone. Paypal allows "employees" of an account holder to login and verify, so it wasn't an issue of breaking the TOS.

* The bank account statement was uploaded and paypal sent an e-mail saying they needed a mobile phone bill, an electric bill etc etc.

* I was told that unless these documents were uploaded in 24 hours, my account would be locked permanently, with all my funds locked for 180 days. Funds which I desperately needed to continue business.
* It was impossible to get all these documents before Monday, and an e-mail was sent stating that no further appeal would be entertained, and all of my money would be released only after 180 days.

* My friend was back by this time and called them. He said he would fax them all necessary documents immediately. He was told that the paypal employees couldn't do anything. The system had locked the account for 180 days, and they didn't have the power to unlock it.

* He explained that the two ebay accounts linked to paypal had 5000+ feedback scores with one account at 99.8% positive, and the other at 100% positive, and that the website transactions had resulted in only one complaint in the past year out of 1500 transactions, and that too had been resolved.

* He was told that it wasn't a problem of complaints. He was told the system had automatically perma locked the account because we had taken too long.

* I did some research, and I found that an extraordinary amount of people were facing the same problem as me, especially lately.

In 2008, paypal bought some new online security company out of Israel:

http://news.techworld.com/security/11252/paypal-buys-israeli-security-company/

This had caused all sorts of craziness over the past year.

So yea, I was really stuck. Basically, I traveled to another country to open a fresh paypal account there, and I am waiting for my money to come back to me from that other payapl. I was in a lot of trouble with a lot of customers, to whom I had to ship their purchases without any money to ship.

Opening that second paypal account was a VERY long process. All sorts of documents including supplier info was produced.

These past few weeks have been hell for me. All the tension from the matter made me pretty ill. The stomach pains came from all the pressure from the customers. Thankfully most of my customers have been very understanding, and my shipping agent has been shipping my items on credit.

Things have gotten better though, so I am back here.

I just hope this is the end of it. 

edit:

But it wasn't just continuing business. I had a lot of commitments I needed to meet with my money. Getting e-mails and phone calls to pay bills with money you can't touch isn't pretty.


A lot of people depend on me as well. Aside from the the obvious, I am my shipping agent's biggest client, so he depends on me. I am the only buyer of leather carpets from the tannery I use, so he depends on me. He can't move his stock elsewhere. Everything had come to a standstill, with constant pressure on me.
« Last Edit: Thursday, September 23, 2010, 12:41:39 AM by Pugnate »

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #11 on: Thursday, September 23, 2010, 03:54:58 AM »
Damn man, that is a lot of bullshit to deal with. I'm glad things are looking a lot better now.

Inshallah things would go awry again. Welcome back, man :)

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #12 on: Thursday, September 23, 2010, 05:48:02 AM »
Yea man. It has been a hell of a month.

I just wanted to clarify something:

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Every bank account number starts with a routing number (098 for example). This glitch had reset all bank account numbers saved on paypal as 000.

I wanted to clarify that the routing number was reset to 000 for the Canadian bank accounts.

So if my bank account number was 098-585433-032, paypal's system was expecting me to enter 000-585433-032 instead of what was normal.

I understand why they do this, with so much $$$ at stake for their users. But seriously, why does their system have more power than their employees? That's pretty fucked up.

We were able to provide all required documents by Monday, but according to them, it was too late.

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #13 on: Thursday, September 23, 2010, 06:24:50 AM »
Wait a second.  So they have a bug in their system that basically breaks the verification process, but they still say it's your fault and lock your money away for 180 days?  Bullshit.

I bet they can get their ass sued to kingdom come for this.

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #14 on: Thursday, September 23, 2010, 06:42:11 AM »
Wait a second.  So they have a bug in their system that basically breaks the verification process, but they still say it's your fault and lock your money away for 180 days?  Bullshit.

I bet they can get their ass sued to kingdom come for this.

Plenty of people have tried to sue Paypal with little to no success.  I've heard so many horror stories with them that I try not to use the service if I can help it.

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #15 on: Thursday, September 23, 2010, 06:54:10 AM »
Life is too short man.  Don't let your work life rule your non-work life.

Oh and this all of a sudden seems like a real dick thing to say.

Sorry Pug!

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #16 on: Thursday, September 23, 2010, 07:49:24 AM »
Damn man, that sounds terrible. Paypal is horrible.

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #17 on: Thursday, September 23, 2010, 08:11:01 AM »
I think we need to mount a campaign to expose Paypal in the media, like CBS' 60 Minutes.  Seriously.  I've never before heard of a business this heinous that actually gets away with this level of abuse.

PUG!!!  Welcome back!   :)

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #18 on: Thursday, September 23, 2010, 09:34:57 AM »
Wait a second.  So they have a bug in their system that basically breaks the verification process, but they still say it's your fault and lock your money away for 180 days?  Bullshit.

I bet they can get their ass sued to kingdom come for this.

Yea, except they didn't admit it was their fault till push came to shove/

Every time I have changed my password, they have done the bank account verification thing, and it has always accepted the normal account number. This time, *after* they verified the account was ours, they told me they were looking for 000 as the first three digits.

The guy I finally managed to talk to, was a some manager or something.

When I told him the routing number was NOT 000, he said, "Well, that's the number you stored on our system."

I told him that it was impossible because:

a) I changed the password every month, and it was impossible that I suddenly forgot that I had my routing number on record as 000 instead of what it actually was, after verifying with the correct routing number each month.

b) What were the chances that I had mistakenly stored my routing number as 000 for both bank accounts on paypal?

c) If my routing number was 000, how was I making withdrawals with an incorrect routing number?

Eventually one employee admitted the system had a glitch (after I told them I saw several paypal users complain from Canada on some forum), but then told me I shouldn't have attempted to enter the number so many times. I told him that paypal's own employee reset the tries thrice and told me to keep trying. When I initially called paypal, they should have just told me that the first three digits were zero. Unfortunately the person I had spoken to initially wasn't cleared to see my entire account number.

After I finally did the verification thing, because so many red flags had been raised, I was required to fax/upload documents to prove identity.

So all I had were the bank statements, which I proceeded to send to them immediately.

But then they asked for more crap. This was a Saturday.

They told me that basically when I uploaded the first document, a timer had started where I had 24 hours or whatever to upload all the documents I had.

Apparently I shouldn't have started uploading anything, unless I had all the documents ready.

That's somewhat reasonable, because you can't expect to take a week, because that's plenty time to forget documents.

However there was no mention of a limited time until after I posted the first document to them.

And how unreasonable was it for them to wait another 24 hours, till my business partner could get everything else ready? It was a freakin' Sunday when they shut the account permanently.

Why not let the account continue to be suspended?

I wasn't doing anything illegal. It was unbranded leather garments and decorative products. I had a fantastic reputation.

Regarding the lawsuit, unfortunately, in the TOS, paypal has you agree that they can do whatever they want at their discretion.

The messed up thing is that I was punished for being proactive with the security of my account.

So if you are careless, your account will get hacked from China or Nigeria.

And if you are really careful, paypal will fuck you, because they will assume your account has been taken over by someone from China or Nigeria.

Plenty of people have tried to sue Paypal with little to no success.  I've heard so many horror stories with them that I try not to use the service if I can help it.

I am also registered a seller with moneybookers. They do all their verification when you first create an account. They verify your address, your supplier invoices, your inventory papers, your supplier address, your bank account etc etc. It is a really long process, but you know what? I'd rather that crap happen once, rather than them surprise you from time to time.

Problem is that all the buyers want to use paypal, and no one wants to use other services. Unfortunately paypal is excellent for buyers, but shit for sellers.

http://www.aboutpaypal.org/

http://www.paypalwarning.com/

http://www.screw-paypal.com/horror_stories/horror_stories.html

http://www.paypalsucks.com/

There have been some lawsuits where paypal has had to fork over money, but they've expanded their TOS since then to cover anything they do.

Oh and this all of a sudden seems like a real dick thing to say.

Sorry Pug!

No need to apologize. You guys were trying to help, and that's pretty good advise in normal circumstances.

http://www.overwritten.net/forum/index.php?action=post;quote=92393;topic=6997.0;num_replies=17;sesc=fc66f69f50a3cf3c412a988c4367ad49

Damn man, that sounds terrible. Paypal is horrible.

I had a horrible experience, and I was absolutely stunned when a quick search on Google showed how so many people were having the *exact* same issues as myself.

The thing is that if you are a buyer, paypal is pretty good. And if you are a casual seller, it is good as well.

My recommendations when using paypal as a seller:

* Always have a tracking number. Even if you are selling a digital product... like a download key. Just write the key on a piece of paper and ship it.

* If you are starting a business, keep all supplier receipts. Always build a reputation before increasing your sales.

Paypal is a business, and as a business they definitely want to satisfy most of their users.

Problem is that I was running a business. I answer to my supplier to whom I pay at least 10,000 USD a month for my leather goods. I also pay about 2000 USD to my shipping agent. Aside from those guys, if I am constantly selling items, I need access to at least the shipping cost to ship those items.

If Paypal holds my money at any moment for 180 days, how the hell am I expected to run my business? At the time paypal locked my account, I had about 40 items to ship that week. Now imagine, I had NO money, and I had to ship these items, or risk a serious dent in my reputation. 25 or so of these items were from eBay, and as you guys may be aware of, even two negative feedbacks can suspend your account.

With the DSRs, even if you get 100% positive feedback, you just need TWO 1/5 star ratings to have your account suspended for a month. Ridiculous, isn't it?

So yea, I was under immense pressure.

I think we need to mount a campaign to expose Paypal in the media, like CBS' 60 Minutes.  Seriously.  I've never before heard of a business this heinous that actually gets away with this level of abuse.

PUG!!!  Welcome back!   :)

I am happy to be back. Let's hope my new paypal account doesn't face any problems, or I'll be gone again hehe.

Regarding exposing them, you can see the websites I've linked above in this post.

One guy's story was particularly heartbreaking.

He had a job, but was selling online part time, till he got laid off, after which he concentrated on his e business full time. He was selling laptops, which he bought from various places, and wasn't always able to get receipts. Suddenly, paypal locked his account, asking him to provide supplier receipts.

He wasn't able to of course. I mean, who has a supplier receipt for a few laptops they bought from some company shutting down and selling craigslist?

Anyway, they locked about 30 grand for 180 days, leaving him in a really bad position.

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Re: Tension.
« Reply #19 on: Thursday, September 23, 2010, 10:30:00 AM »
Heh, you'll probably appreciate this story that happened recently.

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« Reply #20 on: Thursday, September 23, 2010, 10:51:26 AM »
haha what the hell? Poor guy.

And what the heck is he doing using paypal only for a business that brings him over 100K a month?

He should have a merchant account at a bank and use a secure payment system. The money will go directly to his account, and it will be easier to pay sales tax on it.

From the forums:

http://www.escapistmagazine.com/forums/read/7.231499-PayPal-Freezes-750K-in-MineCraft-Devs-Account

Some interesting quotes:

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Suspicious activity = we can freeze this account for a couple of months, grab a crap load of interest off investing the money, then give him his cash (minus the interest) after we have "reviewed his case"

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Didn't read the whole article? It said why. PayPal froze his account when he STARTED to make that money. And plus it froze a few weeks ago and the money's just been accumulating since, not to mention the game has become insanely popular over the last few months.

This is what scares me. What if paypal for whatever reason decides to refund all of the money? He will be so fucked.

He should approach a bank, explain his business, minecraft etc., and ask them to open a merchant account for him, and that he'll pay them back later or whatever for it.

Also, check this:

http://www.somethingawful.com/d/news/paypal-fiasco-summary.php

That somethingawful link is hilarious. I went through so much of that.


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Re: Tension.
« Reply #21 on: Thursday, September 23, 2010, 03:18:54 PM »
Can you open multiple paypal accounts and operate from both so that if one account gets locked you're not at zero?

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« Reply #22 on: Sunday, November 28, 2010, 09:09:35 AM »
So paypal Canada has e-mailed me saying they found no wrong activity after the period of closure and that I can reopen my account.

So when I login, it has me change my password, security questions etc etc etc.

Then it asks me to do four steps. Three I did no problem, the last I am having problem with. It is asking for a Canadian utility bill etc., the only problem is that my friend who is the account holder has moved to NY for work.

So yea, it sucks.

Also, if they found no wrong activity after all these months, why not just open the account straight away.

I bet they collect a lot of interest on these "temporary 180 day holds".