"The party of business". Yep, that's about right. I can't get on board with that at all. The Republican party represents the rich and no one else. They don't even pretend to try represent even a single one of my ideals or the ideals of virtually anyone else in my socioeconomic bracket. At least some of what the Democratic party represents includes me.
Regarding the military, really the government and the military need to be smarter with the budget. First of all, our military budget dwarfs the entire CDP of a huge number of countries, so I totally disagree with you that some downsizing isn't in order and dwarfs the military budgets of every remaining country in the world by a large margin. It most certainly dwarfs the ISIS budget.
I believe it is better to support the countries that are fighting terrorism on their home front, because unless we nuke the entire Middle East and make it a smoldering wasteland entirely devoid of life, there are going to be violent Islamic extremists. And even if we destroy the Middle East, there are still extremists in sleeper cells all over the world, not to mention troubled youths that are violent extremests-in-waiting all over the world too. The "war on terror" doesn't work.
Also, the F-35 is an abject failure. It was designed to be a cheaper, lower-performance alternative to the expensive F-22. So far all that they've achieved is making it lower-performance. Can that shit now, it's a massive waste of resources. Then use that massive reclaimed money in some other way in the military. More boots, better training programs, more drones, whatever.