I think maybe you need to take a break from it and come back to it later.
You liked it a lot more the first time around I remember. Yes the character creation sucks, but there is so much depth in the character development aside from that. The graphics are fairly sharp, though the interface is lazy I agree, yet not frustratingly so.
The combat is fantastic and I think the AI is quite good. I think the real battle is enjoying the magic aspect of it all. Once you do that I am sure you will love it a lot more.
I think it is fairly impossible for them to fine tune the AI of the mages to any acceptable level. There are so many... so many spells and counter spells that what can they do? The depth makes for great strategy, but with 1000s of spells, I am not sure how you can fine tune the AI.
I don't know, I am liking this a lot more than Oblivion for example.
I think the other issue is your are playing it on a 800x600 set up? Could that affect the visuals?
There have been a couple of issues I've had.
1. The pathfinding can be a bit frustrating.
2. Buying potions is horrible. You have to buy each one individually and then it deselects every time to add to the tedious nature of the buying system.
That's about it. The A.I. is fantastic so far. If I don't want my mates to attack I ask everyone to 'Hold Position' and they do. When I want them to attack, they do.
I agree with you that there was a certain lazyness to the interface, the graphics etc., but it is easy to look past. The storyline and the interaction between you and your squad is so sweet.
Hey did you try the bard quest in Blacklake? The theater thing?
hahahahaha man I've never laughed so hard.
Here is the correct music sequence if you want:
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Once you get that right hilarity ensues.
Anyway I was checking out the forums and most people love the game especially after the patching, but there are those in the same boat as you that didn't enjoy the game as much as yourself because of the focus on party combat.
I think the difference is that the fans wanted NWN1 to be like this. And then NWN got a lot of new fans who were new to the whole thing like yourself, and got used to the whole single player style.
Fans who have loved BG1, BG2, IWD, IWD2, and Planescape Torment wanted something like this originally, but enjoyed NWN1 none the less.
So when NWN2 came around it wasn't alien to them having played all those other games. But people who have started with NWN1 were shocked. They couldn't solo anymore.
I think you can, if you just lower the difficulty level to min. etc.
Man I just want to come over and show you the beauty of the magic. I want you to learn it, though we could always play that monk mod hahahaa.
Hey remember my Orc Monk with that creepy fucking laugh hahahaha?